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Hola... bosen juga ngeliat isi blog begitu2 aja.. geezz... lama sekali ini blog ga keurus... maaf ya blog ^^

ah.. let's begin to write something here again by some interesting article my friend given me few days ago, n sepertinya... that kind of phenomenon yang juga nyebabin kenapa gwe labil dalam menjaga blog ini hehehe :D *alasan* :D

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you all might already heard about Quarter-life crisis... yeap... kalu dibahasa indonesia in, jadinya krisis 1/4 hidup *toefl  100* -_-"  hehehe :D yaa.. maksudnya itu lah... krisis yg dialami kebanyakan orang yang udah hidup 1/4 abad, which is at our ages :D.


Menurut wikipedia :

The quarterlife crisis is a term applied to the period of life immediately following the major changes of adolescence, usually ranging from the early twenties to the early thirties. The term is named by analogy with mid-life crisis

Di situ sih katanya si krisis ini terjadi antara usia 20-30an, but to me personally, this kind of phenomenon just happened di usia menuju 1/4 abad, n kerasa banget since gwe lulus kuliah. I don't know if you guys feel it too or not, but gwe sendiri ngrasa lebih labil when i'm getting older. Awalnya gwe kira gwe kinda have this benjamin button disease heheh :D

in my experience, Knp tiba2 jadi lebih labil daripada jaman2 sma n kulian, lebih pesimis in everything, lebih seneng back to the past, lebih kinda takut sama perubahan, n hal2 labil nan absurd lainnya.and then kmaren temen gwe ngasih link ini. and then i've found out that gwe masih normal, ga senasib benjamin button n still waras *amin* :D

this posting gwe share karena gwe ingin membesarkan hati kalian para anak muda usia 20-30an yang mungkin ngalamain this phenomenon n kinda worry sama kondisi kejiwaan kalian sendiri heheh :D. Kalian normal peeps :)

menurut wikipedia lagi, here is the characteristics when Quarter life crisis happen to us :

• realizing that the pursuits of one's peers are useless
• confronting their own mortality
• watching time slowly take its toll on their parents, only to realize they are next
• insecurity regarding the fact that their actions are meaningless
• insecurity concerning ability to love themselves, let alone another person
• insecurity regarding present accomplishments
• re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships
• lack of friendships or romantic relationships, sexual frustration, and involuntary celibacy
• disappointment with one's job
• nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life
• tendency to hold stronger opinions
• boredom with social interactions
• loss of closeness to high school and college friends
• financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unanticipatedly high cost of living, etc.)
• loneliness, depression and suicidal tendencies
• desire to have children
• a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than oneself
• frustration with social skills

Font yang digedein, itu yang gwe rasa happened to me. n ternyata sodara2, all those characteristics adalah bukan hal yang tidak umum, itu semua terjadi di kebanyakan orang muda di usia 20-30.

Walopun ini bukan hal yang aneh, but i believe you all just like myself pengen keluar dari this kind of thing, satu2nya jalan... ya get on with life sampe usia lewat 30 taon *lho* :D hehehe :D n all those characteristics biarlah kita jadiin ukuran tingkat kesehatan jiwa kita :D semua karakteristik itu bukan  gejala suatu penyakit yang bisa bawa kita ke kematian, they're just characteristic yang ngegambarin if... we had one of those characteristic, brarti kita lagi ngalamin Quater-life crisis.

n mudah2an aja kita ga sampe pada characteristic "loneliness, depression and suicidal tendencies".

Horror beud... :D

So... jangan kaget or norak or aneh kalu liat temen2 seumuran kita ujug2 labil :D hehehe :D kelabilan tidak hanya dialami ABG sajah temans, Labil milik kita bersama hehehe :D

Let's have our Quater-life crisis with beautiful yet gorgeous way ;)

Until next posting, friends :)

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